The Four Ways of Leading & Being - Conscious Leadership Contexts

	TO ME	BY ME	THROUGH ME	AS ME
	Responsibility	Surrender	Oneness
MONEY	Scarcity = Never enough I work hard to get it My value is attached to it	I want more I can create more It is a measure of my value	It is abundant It is an energy not a thing Measurement is irrelevant	It is just another form (of energy) It is given and received with freedom and joy
TIME	There is not the right amount I am stressed because of it I am overwhelmed, busy/bored	I'm in control of my time I use time management systems I use it to do what I want	I have plenty of it There is only now - there is no past or future	I am the source of it It is an illusion - like all other illusions
HAPPINESS	It is a fleeting moment of pleasure (ice cream, vacation, sex) It depends on circumstances	I choose to make myself happy I make happiness if I bring the right ingredients	It is here now It has a deep lasting quality (Joy) I relax into joy	Happiness is just another state, it is one of many vibrations passing through
DISCIPLINE	Always too much or too little It's hard; I "should"; "I have to" It is necessary to be good	I choose it (to delay gratification) I use it as a tool to create	It is effortless Having and delaying gratification are equals	Can you find the one who is disciplined?
PURPOSE	What purpose? I should have one and don't I just have roles I play	My purpose I declare it and go out and get it Both takes energy and energizing	Transcendent purpose No more wanting I receive it through listening	What purpose? Being and purpose are the same Impossible to be off of it
LEADERSHIP	It's a role; I have it or I don't It comes with have-tos, burden and incompetent followers	There are skills/techniques to master which create good or effective leadership	It arises in response to present need; no "one" is the leader in co-creation	There is no one to lead and nowhere to lead to